Embracing The Joys of Grandparenthood

Some dates linger in our memory, forever etched in the tapestry of our lives. For me, those dates are 23rd March 2020 and 23rd March 2024. They mark significant milestones in my journey through the four stages of life as outlined by my culture: Student, Married, Retired, and Renunciate Role Model. My grand kids Vidhan and Inaira were born on these dates respectively. 

Now, standing at the cusp of stage three and four, I can't help but feel a profound sense of gratitude towards life for carrying me this far. Just as my parents, friends, and teachers propelled me from stage one to two, now it's my children and life itself ushering me into the next phase.

I often pondered what it would be like to be a grandpa, and now, blessedly, I find myself living that reality. Vidhan and now Inaira constitute the very essence of my existence. The hustle and bustle of my earlier days have given way to a quieter, more contemplative rhythm. No longer in the driver's seat, I find solace in occupying the passenger consciousness, savoring life's simple pleasures through the lens of my grandchildren's experiences.

It's akin to a graduation ceremony where life presents a certificate of satisfaction and contentment. With the kids at the helm, I have nothing to fret about. No more maps to chart, bags to pack, or destinations to chase. Basking in passenger consciousness is life's greatest reward, if you can appreciate its subtleties.

Perhaps the most delightful aspect of this phase is the freedom to indulge in simple pleasures without concern for the mess. Whether it's sharing an ice cream with your grandkid, unconcerned if it drips onto your tuxedo, or reveling in the bonds of love and mischief, this is where the true essence of family shines brightest.

Indeed, family is the cornerstone of life. Having invested heavily in the matters of family, I now reap the spiritual dividends of bliss and happiness.

So, to my dear grandchildren, thank you for bestowing upon me the gift of grandparenthood. 

With warmth and gratitude,

Ashutosh